Viewers are largely engaged with the family conflict at the heart of "Uju's War," sparking debate about the characters' actions. Many sympathise with the mother-in-law, viewing her actions as well-intentioned, while others see her as overbearing. The wife, Uju, is criticised by some for being "insecure" and disrespectful, while her husband, Benjamin, receives praise for his maturity in handling the situation. Some found the disrespect shown to the mother-in-law difficult to watch, and a few expressed frustration with the wife's behaviour early in the film.